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Cxhibit a
rom: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
ect: Makayla church friend
ste: Mar 25, 2024 at 9:00:50 PM
». Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonicatgmaill.com, Mat Ralidak
mralidak@amail.com

Colin Derieg drcolin@hotmail.com

Hi Mat, Monica,

| have uncomfortable and disturbing news to share.

Elora just came to me and said she needed to talk to me. It was about her friend
Makayla from church. After what she told me | told her that | needed to share this
information with you and that she does not need to be worried that her friend will be
in trouble.

| explained to Elora that however Makayla’s parents handle the situation is out of our
control and that if Makayla ever came to Elora in church and complained that she got
in trouble, | helped Elora to handle that situation on what to say.

Ok. Here goes.

Welp. This email has taken me 55min to write. Elora just came out of her room
8:44pm to tell me more about what happened.

Ok.

Yesterday when Elora was over Makayla’s, Makayla inappropriately touched Elora
and kissed her on the lips. This apparently was twice. Makayla has kissed her before
and tried to pull up her shirt. Yesterday, Makayla was able to pull Elora's underwear
down and tried to touch her vagina. Elora was in tears and used the word “pussy”. |
asked where she got that from and she said Makayla. | corrected her with the
correct term of vagina and asked more questions.

When | asked how she reacted to Makayla trying to kiss her and pull her pants down,
she said she just froze and would try to bunch up her legs to her chest to protect her
private parts from being touched. | then explained the 3 roles, fight, flight and fawn
and that she did nothing wrong and this is a normal reaction when scared to fawn.
Makayla would tell her dad that they were “painting”.

| cannot get our babies face out of my brain sharing this experience.

|am completely disturbed and | hope you will agree with me that Elora is not to go
over Makayla’s house anymore. Please include me on any conversations you have
with her mother through text or email. | have her number but | feel it would be more
appropriate if you handle this conversation since this is a friend from your church.
Elora has a plan in place if Makayla is to come up to her at church, and Elora would


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like to sit up with you two during service in April,
Please keep me updated.

Thank you,

Veronika

Sent from my iPhone


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ex. Z

From: Gmail mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 10:18:44 AM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg
drcolin@hotmail.com

Thank you for bring this to our attention. Elora did not mention any of this to us. This
will be addressed immediately and there will be no future play dates planned. The
only concerns she raised was getting hurt a few times playing.

Sent from my iPhone
On Mar 25, 2024, at 9:00 PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
Hi Mat, Monica,

| have uncomfortable and disturbing news to share.

Elora just came to me and said she needed to talk to me. It was about her friend
Makayla from church. After what she told me | told her that | needed to share this
information with you and that she does not need to be worried that her friend will be
in trouble.

| explained to Elora that however Makayla’s parents handle the situation is out of our
control and that if Makayla ever came to Elora in church and complained that she
got in trouble, | helped Elora to handle that situation on what to say.

Ok. Here goes.

Welp. This email has taken me 55min to write. Elora just came out of her room
8:44pm to tell me more about what happened.

Ok.

Yesterday when Elora was over Makayla’s, Makayla inappropriately touched Elora
and kissed her on the lips. This apparently was twice. Makayla has kissed her
before and tried to pull up her shirt. Yesterday, Makayla was able to pull Elora's
underwear down and tried to touch her vagina. Elora was in tears and used the word
“oussy”. | asked where she got that from and she said Makayla. | corrected her with
the correct term of vagina and asked more questions.

When | asked how she reacted to Makayla trying to kiss her and pull her pants
down, she said she just froze and would try to bunch up her legs to her chest to
protect her private parts from being touched. | then explained the 3 roles, fight,


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tx Z
From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com

Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 10:32:24AM

To: Gmail mralidak@gmail.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg
drcolin@hotmail.com

% Elora did mention to me that when you all camped at battleground that there was a
girl she befriended who tried to kiss her and she felt comfortable enough to share
with Monica.
| did not ask her why she did not share with you or Monica about Makayla on Sunday.
You had said, “this will be addressed immediately.” How will this be addressed?
Please include me in your communications with Karla.

Thank you,
Gaon No Communiehyns
Sent from my iPhone Bom pow

On Mar 26, 2024, at 10:18AM, Gmail <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Thank you for bring this to our attention. Elora did not mention any of this to us.
This will be addressed immediately and there will be no future play dates planned.
The only concerns she raised was getting hurt a few times playing.

Sent from my iPhone
On Mar 25, 2024, at 9:00 PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
Hi Mat, Monica,

| have uncomfortable and disturbing news to share.

Elora just came to me and said she needed to talk to me. It was about her friend
Makayla from church. After what she told me | told her that | needed to share this
information with you and that she does not need to be worried that her friend will
be in trouble.

| explained to Elora that however Makayla’s parents handle the situation is out of
our control and that if Makayla ever came to Elora in church and complained that


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Gx 2

From: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 1:40:23PM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com

Just seeing this email. I've spoken to Makayla's father on the phone earlier about
the situation. Karla is not home at the moment and they will speak with Makaylay

today and get back to me. Once they do | will include you in what that conversation
is.

On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 10:32 AM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Elora did mention to me that when you all camped at battleground that there was a
girl she befriended who tried to kiss her and she felt comfortable enough to share
with Monica.

| did not ask her why she did not share with you or Monica about Makayla on
Sunday.

You had said, “this will be addressed immediately.” How will this be addressed?
Please include me in your communications with Karla.

Thank you,
Veronika

Sent from my iPhone

> On Mar 26, 2024, at 10:18AM, Gmail <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

>

> Thank you for bring this to our attention. Elora did not mention any of this to us.
This will be addressed immediately and there will be no future play dates planned.
The only concerns she raised was getting hurt a few times playing.

>

>

> Sent from my iPhone

>

>> On Mar 25, 2024, at 9:00 PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

>>

>> Hi Mat, Monica,

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From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 2:02:15 PM
lo: Mathew Ralidak mralidak @gmail.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalimonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmall.com

This is not including me in the conversations! This is leftovers. Not sharing.
| don't believe you understand the severity of the situation.

These conversations need to be in writing. Pragmatically.

It protects our children.

Itis almost 2pm. This is not being immediately addressed Mathew.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 1:40 PM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Just seeing this email. I've spoken to Makayla's father on the phone earlier about
the situation. Karla is not home at the moment and they will speak with Makaylay
today and get back to me. Once they do | will include you in what that conversation
is.

On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 10:32 AM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Elora did mention to me that when you all camped at battleground that there was a
girl she befriended who tried to kiss her and she felt comfortable enough to share
with Monica.

| did not ask her why she did not share with you or Monica about Makayla on
Sunday.

You had said, “this will be addressed immediately.’ How will this be addressed?
Please include me in your communications with Karla.

Thank you,
Veronika

Sent from my iPhone

> On Mar 26, 2024, at 10:18AM, Gmail <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Po


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Gx ZL

From: Gmail mralidak@gmatl.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 3:06:50 PM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmal|.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com

| absolutely understand the severity of the situation. | read your first email at 10:18
and immediately got in contact with Doug. He understands the severity of the
situation as well and will be working with Karla to address this and will get back to us
as soon as possible. | do not have an email address for Karla and asked Doug to
please have her email us both. Please do not misconstrue this for not
communicating. These are situations where whatever issue is between us is put to
the side so that we can address this together. That is what | am doing and ask that
accusatory tones be left out of the equation. | am absolutely devastated that Elora

has experienced this as | know you are. | jumped into action because | felt like my
heart was exploding.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 2:02 PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

This is not including me in the conversations! This is leftovers. Not sharing.
| don't believe you understand the severity of the situation.

These conversations need to be in writing. Pragmatically.

It protects our children.

It is almost 2pm. This is not being immediately addressed Mathew.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 1:40PM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Just seeing this email. I've spoken to Makayla's father on the phone earlier about
the situation. Karla is not home at the moment and they will speak with Makaylay

today and get back to me. Once they do | will include you in what that conversation
is.


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Ex Z
From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 26, 2024 at 5:37:06 PM
To: Gmail mralidaki®gmail.cam
Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonicam@gmail|.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com

“| jumped into action because | felt like my heart was exploding.”

| completely understand and relate.

| apologize if my email felt accusatory.

By no means do | feel blame or ill will towards anyone.

lam concerned for Mikayla and Ona.

Thank you for advocating an email to both of us. And our past has absolutely nothing
to do with what Elora experienced, | agree with you and will approach this situation
as | have approached all our issues with integrity and grace.

Let me know how | can support your family with this experience with Elora.
Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 3:06PM, Gmail <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

| absolutely understand the severity of the situation. | read your first email at 10:18
and immediately got in contact with Doug. He understands the severity of the
situation as well and will be working with Karla to address this and will get back to
us as soon as possible. | do not have an email address for Karla and asked Doug to
please have her email us both. Please do not misconstrue this for not
communicating. These are situations where whatever issue is between us is put to
the side so that we can address this together. That is what | am doing and ask that
accusatory tones be left out of the equation. | am absolutely devastated that Elora
has experienced this as | know you are. | jumped into action because | felt like my
heart was exploding.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 2:02PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:


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From: Woodle dokawood@wavecable.com
Subject: Sunday's Playdate
Date: Mar 27, 2024 at 11:08:45 PM
To: mralidak@gmail.com, kit@kitspins.com

| just got home from Montana this evening, and spoke at length with Makayla about their entire
playdate. They spent a lot of time outside, played on the trampoline and rode scooters, and were
inside for a bit. When they were inside they played upstairs and painted/drew (I'll include some
pictures of their beautiful work) and were dancing (and spinning and swinging each other) to some
different songs. Our older daughter and Doug both heard them laughing and singing the whole
time. | pushed pretty hard asking for more and more details and asking other indirect questions,

and | did not hear anything concerning when discussing the day. Hopefully this is helpful
information.

Kinds regards,
Karla

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m: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
ject: Re: Makayla church friend
Mar 28, 2024 at 8:10:15AM
To: Mat Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonicam@gmail com, Colin Derieg

WMcoNNaVotmallcom

Good morning.

| am deeply concerned after reading Karla's dismissing email.

None of those drawings are Elora’s and “drawing” was code to put Elora in an
uncomfortable position.

Makayla held Elora's wrists and wouldn't allow her to pull up her pants and
underwear.

Makayla told Elora to “touch my pussy”.

Elora had to hold her knees to her chest to block Makayla from touching her vagina.

This is not dramatic talk. This is our daughter in tears being brave telling me every
detail.

This behavior from Makayla is learned.

Someone is teaching her the word “pussy”.

Someone is teaching her to be sneaky as she lied to her father and told them they
were “drawing” when Elora said they never drew and that was code that immediately
made Elora uncomfortable. Elora said all she wanted to do was play Barbie's.

This is learned behavior and needs to be investigated.

Again, please let me know how | can support your family with Elora.

Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 26, 2024, at 5:37PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

“| jumped into action because | felt like my heart was exploding.”

| completely understand and relate.

| apologize if my email felt accusatory.

By no means do | feel blame or ill will towards anyone.

|am concerned for Mikayla and Ona.

Thank you for advocating an email to both of us. And our past has absolutely
nothing to do with what Elora experienced, | agree with you and will approach this
situation as | have approached all our issues with integrity and grace.


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Tey 2

From: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
date: Mar 28, 2024 at 9:55:40 AM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com
Hi,
Now that the police are involved they'll be doing an investigation, correct?

| would like to take Elora out to dinner tonight or tomorrow and hug her and let her

know daddys' got her. Please let me know what times work best the next couple
evenings.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 8:10 AM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Good morning.

lam deeply concerned after reading Karla's dismissing email.

None of those drawings are Elora’s and “drawing” was code to put Elora in an
uncomfortable position.

Makayla held Elora’s wrists and wouldn't allow her to pull up her pants and
underwear.

Makayla told Elora to “touch my pussy”.

Elora had to hold her knees to her chest to block Makayla from touching her vagina.
This is not dramatic talk. This is our daughter in tears being brave telling me every
detail.

This behavior from Makayla is learned.

Someone is teaching her the word “pussy”.

Someone is teaching her to be sneaky as she lied to her father and told them they
were “drawing” when Elora said they never drew and that was code that
immediately made Elora uncomfortable. Elora said all she wanted to do was play
Barbie's.

This is learned behavior and needs to be investigated.

Again, please let me know how | can support your family with Elora.

Veronika
Sent from my iPhone


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Ex. 2

From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
date: Mar 28, 2024 at 10:16:22 AM
To: Mathew Ralidak mralidakéygqmail.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonicam@ymail. com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmatl.com
Yes. There is an investigation.

| just got off the phone with Dawson Place. Elora has a 2 hour assessment with Leah
on April 24th at 10am at 1509 California st Everette wa 98201.
On going therapy will be in Monroe.

| can imagine the desire to hold your baby girl.

Tonight doesn’t work as we have plans.

Since you haven't gotten back to me regarding Aidan and Raina for gymnastics with
Elora, would you like to take Elora to gymnastics and dinner for some special daddy/
daughter time? You could pick her up from school and | can meet you at our pickup
spot when done. Or. She could sleepover and we all meet up with you for Baseball?
What works best for you?

Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 28, 2024, at 9:55AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Hi

Now that the police are involved they'll be doing an investigation, correct?

| would like to take Elora out to dinner tonight or tomorrow and hug her and let her
know daddys' got her. Please let me know what times work best the next couple
evenings.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 8:10AM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Good morning.

| am deeply concerned after reading Karla's dismissing email.

None of those drawings are Elora’s and “drawing” was code to put Elora in an


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rom: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 28, 2024 at 11:46:04AM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com
Please provide me with the case number for the investigation.

| will need all the information for what you have signed Elora up for as | don't know
what you're referencing. The school has already offered a free therapy program
and | would like to take them up on that.

Friday after school works out great for pick up and | can drop her off at baseball on
Saturday. | will not be coaching this week as | have a funeral to attend.

We can discuss gymnastics in our talking parents thread.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 10:16 AM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
Yes. There is an investigation.

| just got off the phone with Dawson Place. Elora has a 2 hour assessment with
Leah on April 24th at 10am at 1509 California st Everette wa 98201.
On going therapy will be in Monroe.

| can imagine the desire to hold your baby girl.

Tonight doesn’t work as we have plans.

Since you haven't gotten back to me regarding Aidan and Raina for gymnastics
with Elora, would you like to take Elora to gymnastics and dinner for some special
daddy/daughter time? You could pick her up from school and | can meet you at
our pickup spot when done. Or. She could sleepover and we all meet up with you
for Baseball? What works best for you?

Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 28, 2024, at 9:55AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

 


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ex. 2

KiT Spins

Re: Makayla church friend.

Mar 28, 2024 at 5:02: 57 PM

Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.con

Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

Mathew, | just received a call from Kim from Dawson Place where she confirmed
that YOU CALLED HER AND CANCELED ELORAS SCHEDULED THERAPY
SESSION saying “it's not a severe situation and at this time does not consent for
counseling/therapy.”

| have given you all the information at the time | received it and this is just
disgusting that you are against counseling for our little girl.

Considering the severity of this situation and what you have done not thinking of
our daughter and her wellbeing, | cannot allow you to take Elora to gymnastics and
to dinner on my residential time tomorrow.

We will resume normal pickup on your residential time on April 4th after school.
And Monica, do not lie to me that “no one wants court”.

You both are high conflict personalities that have no desire to co parent for the
health and safety and the well being of our children.

No communication is necessary. See you at the pre trial conference in April.

In disbelief and sadness,
Veronika

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 28, 2024, at 11:46AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Please provide me with the case number for the investigation.

| will need all the information for what you have signed Elora up for as | don't know


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Sx 2

From: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 28, 2024 at 5:19:22 PM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg
drcolin@hotmail.com

That is incorrect. | called Dawson's place to ask about the program because you
did not respond to my request for information. Kim told me that she would have
someone call me tomorrow to give me information. | said that | DID understand the
severity of the situation but wanted to understand what this program was before
fully consenting because | did not want to traumatize Elora further and have zero
information on Dawson's place. | did not cancel any appointments.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 5:02PM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Mathew, | just received a call from Kim from Dawson Place where she confirmed
that YOU CALLED HER AND CANCELED ELORAS SCHEDULED THERAPY
SESSION saying “it’s not a severe situation and at this time does not consent for
counseling/therapy.”

| have given you all the information at the time | received it and this is just
disgusting that you are against counseling for our little girl.

Considering the severity of this situation and what you have done not thinking of
our daughter and her wellbeing, | cannot allow you to take Elora to gymnastics
and to dinner on my residential time tomorrow.

We will resume normal pickup on your residential time on April 4th after school.
And Monica, do not lie to me that “no one wants court".

You both are high conflict personalities that have no desire to co parent for the
health and safety and the well being of our children.

No communication is necessary. See you at the pre trial conference in April.

In disbelief and sadness,
Veronika


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tw. 2
From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend

Date: Mar 28, 2024 at 9:01:35 PM
To: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@qmail.com

~

Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg
drcolin@hotmail.com

| gave you the information | had!
You were completely in the know as well as Monica and Colin.

Kim called me and said verbatim to the previous email.

And yes Elora's assessment, in a field that specializes in Elora’s exact situation,
was canceled due to you saying to Kim and documented, “it's not a severe
situation and at this time does not consent for counseling/therapy.”

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 28, 2024, at 5:19PM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

That is incorrect. | called Dawson's place to ask about the program because you
did not respond to my request for information. Kim told me that she would have
someone call me tomorrow to give me information. | said that | DID understand
the severity of the situation but wanted to understand what this program was
before fully consenting because | did not want to traumatize Elora further and
have zero information on Dawson's place. | did not cancel any appointments.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 5:02PM KIT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Mathew, | just received a call from Kim from Dawson Place where she confirmed
that YOU CALLED HER AND CANCELED ELORAS SCHEDULED THERAPY
SESSION saying “it's not a severe situation and at this time does not consent for
counseling/therapy.”

| have given you all the information at the time | received it and this is just
disgusting that you are against counseling for our little girl.

Considering the severity of this situation and what you have done not thinking of


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ey. 2

Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Re: Makayla church friend
te: Mar 28, 2024 at 9: 28: 46PM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Monica Merson GE \ rgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

¥1.com

Then what | said was misunderstood because | did not cancel the appointment. |
have someone calling me tomorrow to explain to me how the assessment works
and | will make it clear that it was not my intention to cancel. | did not say that it
was not a severe situation and if she documented that then all | can say is that my
anxious rambling might have been confusing because it has been very difficult to
have a clear thought this week.

| will not accept the accusation that | am not considering Elora's well being. All |
have been doing this week has been considering her well being. | am not with her, |
am not able to hold her, and | am not able to tell her that she is safe. | am sick over
all of it and | am struggling to put thoughts together. | wish you would have told me
that you were looking at Dawson's so that we could talk through it together so that
| could be on the same page as you. | have to play catch up on all of this because |
am not with her and have no insight into what is happening in real time. | was also
completely caught off guard when a police officer called me. | wish you would
have told me that you filed a report so that | could again be on the same page. | am
not fighting anything | am consistently being caught off guard.

When | speak to the person at Dawson's | will be clear that | am not asking to
cancel.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 9:01PM KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
| gave you the information | had!
You were completely in the know as well as Monica and Colin.

Kim called me and said verbatim to the previous email.

And yes Elora’s assessment, in a field that specializes in Elora's exact situation,
was canceled due to you saying to Kim and documented, “it's not a severe
situation and at this time does not consent for counseling/therapy."

 


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ex, 2

From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 28, 2024 at 9:44:22 PM
To: Mathew Ralidak tnralidaki@gmail.com
Cec: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com

You got the same information at the same time | got it about Dawsons Place!!!
You are calling Kim a liar and your response is an over explaining mess.
You are making everything difficult.

At 10:35am | called you on the phone and left you a 3 minute voicemail asking you
to call me and come together with a healthy, stable, 50/50 parenting plan and you
send me the most foul, slap in the face, not fair or just parenting plan.

NO YOU ARE NOT THINKING OF THE WELL-BEING OF OUR CHILDREN.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 28, 2024, at 9:28PM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Then what | said was misunderstood because | did not cancel the appointment. |
have someone calling me tomorrow to explain to me how the assessment works
and | will make it clear that it was not my intention to cancel. | did not say that it
was not a severe situation and if she documented that then all | can say is that my
anxious rambling might have been confusing because it has been very difficult to
have a clear thought this week.

| will not accept the accusation that | am not considering Elora's well being. All |
have been doing this week has been considering her well being. | am not with her,
|!am not able to hold her, and !am not able to tell her that she is safe. | am sick
over all of it and | am struggling to put thoughts together. | wish you would have
told me that you were looking at Dawson's so that we could talk through it
together so that | could be on the same page as you. | have to play catch up on all
of this because | am not with her and have no insight into what is happening in
real time. | was also completely caught off guard when a police officer called me. |
wish you would have told me that you filed a report so that | could again be on the
same page. | am not fighting anything | am consistently being caught off guard.


--- Page 19 ---
om: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@qmail.com
ject: Re: Makayla church friend
te: Mar 29, 2024 at 10:59:09 AM
To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

W*hotmatlLcom

Hello,

| spoke with Dawson Place this morning and they confirmed | did not cancel any
assessments for Elora. Dawson Place themselves canceled the assessment based
on the Parenting Plan not being followed in Joint Decision Making. They need both
parents to have all the information and agree together about the services. | was
not a part of you calling and asking them for services, that was not a joint decision.
| do not have all of the information from you in regards to the case number or any
of the details you provided Dawson Place. This was all grounds for their decision,
not mine. If you would like to provide me with all the information in regards to our
daughter so we can properly assess the situation and get her the help she needs,
I'm more than willing to do so. But not being provided the information and
continuing to piece together everything doesn't help Elora.

Please provide me with the police case number.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 10:19PM Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:
May | please have the reference number for the police report filed.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 9:44PM KIT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

You got the same information at the same time | got it about Dawsons Place!!!
You are calling Kim a liar and your response is an over explaining mess.

You are making everything difficult.

At 10:35am | called you on the phone and left you a 3 minute voicemail asking
you to call me and come together with a healthy, stable, 50/50 parenting plan
and you send me the most foul, slap in the face, not fair or just parenting plan.
NO YOU ARE NOT THINKING OF THE WELL-BEING OF OUR CHILDREN.

Sent from my iPhone

 

 


--- Page 20 ---
From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 29, 2024 at 11:34:15 AM
To: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

Hin@hotmail.com
Mathew,
| CALLED YOU ON THE PHONE AND LEFT A 3 MINUTE MESSAGE.

| emailed you IMMEDIATELY after speaking with Kim with ALL the information she
gave me.
You have been IN THE KNOW with every detail as | have gotten it.

You SPOKE TO THE DEPUTY ON THE PHONE and should have gotten all the
information you are seeking.

YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN COMMUNICATED TO ABOUT EVERY DETAIL IN
INFORMATION REGARDING OUR CHILDREN. ALWAYS.

It is YOU that have not let our children call me to say goodnight.

So | got the kids a phone so you can connect anytime.

It is YOU that won't tell me about birthday parties or events regarding our
children.

IT IS YOU WHO IS WITHHOLDING INFORMATION.

Stop the unnecessary games. Stop the lies. It's all recorded and everyone on this
email thread as well as Dawson Place knows your lies. As of Monday | will have a
statement.

As | see it you only have one choice if you want 50/50 and a healthy co parenting
life.

Have your LLL send me what is in the best interest of our children for 50/50 so |
can review and sign by next week.

We can go to pre trial conference and say we settled and move on with our lives.
If you chose not too, then | have to again take what Monica has said, “Nobody
wants court.” Text dated February 29th, as another bold face lie and presume that


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Ee, 2

you two only want court and | will come out with every bit of evidence that clearly
states BY PROFESSIONALS how your residential time needs to be cut to just every
other weekend starting on Fridays after school.

Going back to the importance of this email thread, | DO NOT CONSENT to Elora

going to church with you on Sundays at this time.

While there is an investigation | don't want her anywhere near that family. This is
guidance from the sheriff and has told me I'm “on the right track” and “doing all

the right things.”

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 10:59 AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Hello,

| spoke with Dawson Place this morning and they confirmed | did not cancel any
assessments for Elora. Dawson Place themselves canceled the assessment
based on the Parenting Plan not being followed in Joint Decision Making. They
need both parents to have all the information and agree together about the
services. | was not a part of you calling and asking them for services, that was not
a joint decision. | do not have all of the information from you in regards to the case
_|number or any of the details you provided Dawson Place. This was all grounds for
their decision, not mine. If you would like to provide me with all the information in
regards to our daughter so we can properly assess the situation and get her the
help she needs, I'm more than willing to do so. But not being provided the
information and continuing to piece together everything doesn't help Elora.

 

Please provide me with the police case number.


--- Page 22 ---
Cx. 2

From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Mar 29, 2024 at 11:42:12AM
To: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com

| have just learned that Makayla’s older sister was too touchy feely with another
young girl. That young girl had a voice and made sure Makayla’s older sister knew
it was inappropriate and stopped being friends with her.

THIS IS ME GIVING YOU INFORMATION AS | RECEIVE.
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 10:59 AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Hello,

| spoke with Dawson Place this morning and they confirmed | did not cancel any
assessments for Elora. Dawson Place themselves canceled the assessment
based on the Parenting Plan not being followed in Joint Decision Making. They
need both parents to have all the information and agree together about the
services. | was not a part of you calling and asking them for services, that was not
a joint decision. | do not have all of the information from you in regards to the case
number or any of the details you provided Dawson Place. This was all grounds for
their decision, not mine. If you would like to provide me with all the information in
regards to our daughter so we can properly assess the situation and get her the
help she needs, I'm more than willing to do so. But not being provided the
information and continuing to piece together everything doesn't help Elora.

Please provide me with the police case number.

On Thu, Mar 28, 2024 at 10:19PM Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com>
wrote:
May | please have the reference number for the police report filed.


--- Page 23 ---
Cu Z.

KiT Spins kit@kitspir
Re: Makayla church friend
Mar 29, 2024 at 12:01:00 PM
»: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

Here is more information | just received IN THIS MOMENT.

Per a phone call with Cory at Dawsons Place.

“Conversation was conducted with Mathew Ralidak with a supervisor present.
That supervisor DID NOT reinstate the assessment because Mathew DID NOT
clarify that is what he wanted.”

Do you see how this looks?

| don't need a supervisor present on my calls.

Do the right thing Mathew. Call Dawsons Place and give them a clear yes to the
assessment in April. They will assess Elora to see if she will need ongoing therapy
for being molested by her church friend and next door neighbor to you.

Ok?

Thanks. Have a great Easter weekend! Our children will call you from their phone,
on their time, like they ALWAYS have.

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 11:34AM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Mathew,

| CALLED YOU ON THE PHONE AND LEFT A 3 MINUTE MESSAGE.

| emailed you IMMEDIATELY after speaking with Kim with ALL the information she
gave me.

You have been IN THE KNOW with every detail as | have gotten it.

You SPOKE TO THE DEPUTY ON THE PHONE and should have gotten all the
information you are seeking.

 


--- Page 24 ---
Ca.
KiT Spins kit@kitspins.cor
Re: Makayla church friend
Mar 29, 2024 at 2:33:31PM
Mathew Ralidak Waak@gmall.com
Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

| have had it with you.

How dare you berate me in past emails about not including you in information
when Elora just asked, “did dad tell you he took me out of school and took me out
for lunch?"

| cc you on EVERY email to the school with anything regarding our children and
their whereabouts.

How are you going to lie through this one?
You are only making yourself look bad.

| absolutely love you taking Elora out to lunch. | feel it's important that she knows
her dad is in her corner and that she has that special time with you. What | don’t
love is you telling me | don’t include you on information (which | do) and then turn
around and take our daughter out of school without telling me!!!

Do better.

Have a great Easter weekend!

Veronika

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 11:34 AM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

Mathew,

| CALLED YOU ON THE PHONE AND LEFT A 3 MINUTE MESSAGE.

| emailed you IMMEDIATELY after speaking with Kim with ALL the information she
gave me.
You have been IN THE KNOW with every detail as | have gotten it.


--- Page 25 ---
From: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Apr 1, 2024 at 12:01:19 PM
To: Mathew Ralidak mralidak «gmail.com
Ce: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@ymail.com, Colin Derieg
drcolin@hotmail.com

Good morning.

As of today, 4/1/24, Dawsons Place still has Elora canceled for her assessment.
What you need to do is call Virginia, the supervisor, or Kim and say they have your
“consent” for Eloras assessment.

We need professionals to say if Elora needs ongoing therapy.

Once there is agreement on both sides, per the parenting plan that | emailed to
Dawsons Place, they can schedule Eloras assessment.

Please make this a priority.

Thank you,
Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 10:59 AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Hello,

| spoke with Dawson Place this morning and they confirmed | did not cancel any
assessments for Elora. Dawson Place themselves canceled the assessment

based on the Parenting Plan not being followed in Joint Decision Making. They
need both parents to have all the information and agree together about the
services. | was not a part of you calling and asking them for services, that was not
a joint decision. | do not have all of the information from you in regards to the case
number or any of the details you provided Dawson Place. This was all grounds for
their decision, not mine. If you would like to provide me with all the information in
regards to our daughter so we can properly assess the situation and get her the


--- Page 26 ---
Se. 2

From: Gmail mralidak@gmail.com
Subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Apr 1, 2024 at 4:11:42 PM

To: KiT Spins kit@kitspins.com

| have left messages both Friday and today for a call back to schedule but have
received no response. It was not my intention, nor did | cancel the appointment.

Sent from my iPhone
On Apr 1, 2024, at 12:01PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
Good morning.
As of today, 4/1/24, Dawsons Place still has Elora canceled for her assessment.
What you need to do is call Virginia, the supervisor, or Kim and say they have your
“consent” for Eloras assessment.

We need professionals to say if Elora needs ongoing therapy.

Once there is agreement on both sides, per the parenting plan that | emailed to
Dawsons Place, they can schedule Eloras assessment.

Please make this a priority.
Thank you,
Veronika

Sent from my iPhone

On Mar 29, 2024, at 10:59 AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Hello,

| spoke with Dawson Place this morning and they confirmed | did not cancel any
assessments for Elora. Dawson Place themselves canceled the assessment based
on the Parenting Plan not being followed in Joint Decision Making. They need both
parents to have all the information and agree together about the services. | was not


--- Page 27 ---
Se. 2

: KIT Spins kit@kitspr n
Re: Makayla church friend
Apr 2, 2024 at 10:03:06 AM

» Mat Ralidak mratidaki@gmaiLcom

Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail com, Colin Derieg
arcoln@nrotmall.com

The lying needs to stop Mathew.

And please always cc our significant others on this email thread.

| find it interesting how when | call Dawson Place, | immediately get Kim or Cory on
the phone. They are responsive. Easy to get a hold of.

I'm then transferred to Virginia, the supervisor you SPOKE TO ON FRIDAY.

So. No. You did not call on Friday and Monday and receive no call back. You spoke to
Virginia directly on Friday and said "you did not consent to an assessment for our
daughter at this time.”

Virginia also told me today that you did not call yesterday and leave a message.

Our daughter was molested whether you think so or not.

She is strong, resilient and doesn't play the victim role. Elora has a plan in place for
when she goes back to your church.

And | feel it's important to have a professional assess her to tell us, as her parents, if
she needs on going therapy.

So. I'll repeat my last email.
“ Good morning.

As of today, 4/1/24, Dawsons Place still has Elora canceled for her assessment.
What you need to do is call Virginia, the supervisor, or Kim and say they have your
“consent” for Eloras assessment.

We need professionals to say if Elora needs ongoing therapy.

Once there is agreement on both sides, per the parenting plan that | emailed to
Dawsons Place, they can schedule Eloras assessment.

Please make this a priority.

Thank you,


--- Page 28 ---
| | Veronika”

Please make this a priority and call Virginia and talk with her directly about
consenting to our daughter's assessment.

Stop lying please.

You are only making yourself look bad.

Oh. And one more thing. If you desire 50/50, | would think your only option at this
point, would be creating peace with me and having me sign a 50/50 parenting plan.

With Ms. Sarah letter regarding Raina and Dr. Bowker saying you don't follow Dr
orders, | can see this unfortunate add on of you not consenting to an assessment for
our daughter after being molested twice on your time might sway the courts
decision in a 50/50 parenting plan.

| understand you moved back into the riverview school district, which boggles my
mind since you had such a great home, next to a beautiful and easy airport for you
and Monica's work travels, into a community that does not support you, only to think
you are going to be granted 50/50 so easily.

The truth is, as far as parenting goes, nothing changed with your move.

You do not advocate for peace.

You lie.

You give up Father's Day and special one on one time with our children.

You constantly take me to court, going on 25x in 4 years with a SECOND trial?! For
what?

You are only hurting our children.

It's really simple to get the life you want.

Just live it in love, be grateful for the time you have and feel good about asking me
for more time whenever it works in your schedule.

Or. Send me the 50/50 parenting plan. Take out all the BS about limitations and
finding a new Dr.

The 50/50 parenting plan should look exactly like the one we have now with the BS


--- Page 29 ---
Te Z

of limitations removed, my last name added to our children’s last name, the 72 hours
shortened to 48 and transition time on Sunday at 6pm changed to Fridays after
school.

| have always shown you and Monica my desire for peace and unity in co parenting.

| will continue to put our children’s best interests at the forefront of my being and do
the right thing for all involved. | will continue to advocate for peace between us.
Even if you can't.

Please call Virginia at Dawsons place and redirect the energy to our daughter’s
assessment.

That is the right thing to do.

And if you'd like a 50/50 parenting plan easily with no thousands wasted on
mediation and a 2nd trial that will not go your way like the first one, you know my
email and how to get me that paperwork by your LLL.

Thank you,
Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Apr 1, 2024, at 4:11PM, Gmail <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

| have left messages both Friday and today for a call back to schedule but have
received no response. It was not my intention, nor did | cancel the appointment.

Sent from my iPhone
On Apr 1, 2024, at 12:01PM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:
Good morning.

As of today, 4/1/24, Dawsons Place still has Elora canceled for her assessment.
What you need to do is call Virginia, the supervisor, or Kim and say they have your

 


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Hello Veronica,

Would you please be so kind as to tell Mathew Ralidak
to call the scheduling line for CAP at 425-349-3030?
We are having phone issues and calls to my direct line
are not going through.

Thank you,
Virginia Gleason

Virginia Gleason
Child Advocacy Program Office
Manager
Compass Health - Advancing whole
person health
virginia.gleason@compassh.org |
Direct: (425) 349-7964 |
Dawson Place | 1509 California Ave | M/S 900 |
Everett | WAI 98201 |
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yn: KIT Spins kit@kitspins.com
subject: Re: Makayla church friend
Date: Apr 2, 2024 at 2:53:31PM
o: Mat Ralidak mralidak ‘gmail.com
Cc: Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonica@gmail.com, Colin Derieg

drcolin@hotmail.com
Thank you for making a call to Dawson Place a priority.

Elora has been scheduled for a 2 hour assessment on May 2nd at 8am.

Best,
Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Apr 2, 2024, at 10:03 AM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

The lying needs to stop Mathew.
And please always cc our significant others on this email thread.

| find it interesting how when | call Dawson Place, | immediately get Kim or Cory on
the phone. They are responsive. Easy to get a hold of.

I'm then transferred to Virginia, the supervisor you SPOKE TO ON FRIDAY.

So. No. You did not call on Friday and Monday and receive no call back. You spoke
to Virginia directly on Friday and said “you did not consent to an assessment for our
daughter at this time.”

Virginia also told me today that you did not call yesterday and leave a message.

Our daughter was molested whether you think so or not.

She is strong, resilient and doesn't play the victim role. Elora has a plan in place for
when she goes back to your church.

And | feel it's important to have a professional assess her to tell us, as her parents, if
she needs on going therapy.

So. I'll repeat my last email.
“ Good morning.

As of today, 4/1/24, Dawsons Place still has Elora canceled for her assessment.
What you need to do is call Virginia, the supervisor, or Kim and say they have your


--- Page 32 ---
1: KIT Spins kit@kitspins. com
t- Re: Makayla church friend
ate: Apr 23, 2024 at 10:09:03 AM
): Mat Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
Monica Microsoft GF Yourgalmonicatgmail com, Colin Derieg

Upon receiving our case report | am extremely concerned with what the sheriff said
on page 1 of 1.

“| looked up Makayla in mark43 and found a case similar to this one that had taken
place at Makayla's home. The case number is C19007687."

Thank you Monica for doing the right thing and taking Elora home when she
expressed concern about Makayla being at church.

Next time when | text you a message regarding my daughter (thank you for taking
her out shopping) please be respectful and communicate back with me that she will
call me when she’s available.

| never heard from Elora and when | showed her my text to you she said, “Monica
never told me you text her and wanted me to call!”

That made her sad and it's really not a good look for you.

You can request these case summary reports as they are public information.

Best,
Veronika
Sent from my iPhone

On Apr 2, 2024, at 10:03 AM, KiT Spins <kit@kitspins.com> wrote:

The lying needs to stop Mathew.
And please always cc our significant others on this email thread.

| find it interesting how when | call Dawson Place, | immediately get Kim or Cory on
the phone. They are responsive. Easy to get a hold of.

I'm then transferred to Virginia, the supervisor you SPOKE TO ON FRIDAY.

So. No. You did not call on Friday and Monday and receive no call back. You spoke
to Virginia directly on Friday and said “you did not consent to an assessment for our
daughter at this time."

Virginia also told me today that you did not call yesterday and leave a message.


--- Page 33 ---
 

Monica Microsoft GF »

| apologize. | am not referring to
your words. I’m referring to my
integrity. I'm referring to my always
showing your relationship with mat
respect. | have always wanted
peace and to share our children.
That's the place I’m coming from.

 

 

Understood and appreciated °

Saturday 3:32PM

Clon YON? new Hey monica,

Can you have Elora call me when

E acstadk har to she's available?
COM me. Thank you

 

Today 2:38 PM

Monica,

What do you need me from me to
be a bonus mom and co parent?

| have hugged you, been
vulnerable with you, offered to

take you out to coffee to talk in
person, accepted you as Mats
wife, and moved on.

| am angry. | feel lied to and our
children are suffering.

 

Delivered

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Sa he

rom: Mathew Ralidak mralidak@qmail.com
ject: Elora Ralidak
Date: Apr 16, 2024 at 8:03:25AM
'o. bridgecap@compassh.org
c. KIT kite kitspins com, virgina.gleason@compassh.org

Dear Lori Vanderburg and Fran Gatica:

lam writing regarding my daughter, Elora Ralidak, age 9. Her mother, Veronika Goodnight, sought
services from Dawson Place after a situation with a friend, another 9 year old, on Sunday, March
24, 2024.

I first found out about Dawson Place when Elora’s mother emailed and told me that Elora was
scheduled for an assessment. I had no prior knowledge that she was looking into an assessment or
that she secured a provider for Elora. As Dawson is now aware of, health care (non-emergency)
decisions regarding Elora are to be made jointly by Veronika and myself according to the parenting
plan signed by the Court. See copy attached. When I pointed out to Veronika that the parenting plan
required the decision on Elora’s health to be made jointly, she become very upset and accused me of
cancelling the appointment. However, in a follow up call with Dawson, it was confirmed that you
cancelled the appointment due to the required joint decision-making clause in the parenting plan.
There have been several incorrect statements made by Veronika regarding my contact with Dawson.
Task that Dawson utilize email for communication for this case and that both parents, Veronika and
I, be included in all communications. This will prevent miscommunication and allow us to focus on
meeting Elora’s needs. Please let us know who we should be communicating with.

I assume Veronika took time to research the best way to approach discussions, find a provider, and
help Elora before contacting Dawson. When I contacted Dawson informing you that I did not give
consent for Elora to be assessed at that time, I was merely asking for the same consideration, to be
allowed to do my own research before committing her to an assessment. This is not something to be
taken lightly and I wanted to make an educated decision regarding matters concerning the health of
my daughter.

I did some online research on Dawson but was unable to find specifics on what the two-hour
appointment/assessment will entail. Could you please provide Veronika and I with details on how
the appointment will go? Will the first appointment be primarily for intake or will Elora be meeting
with any providers (mental health, physical exam, therapist etc.)? If yes, will she be expected to
meet with the providers individually or will we, her parents, be allowed to go with her?

| anticipate that prior to discussing this sensitive subject with Elora, Dawson would interview both
parents individually to get the facts from each parent’s perspective. I understand that Veronika has
already given her point of view to Dawson as she stated to me in an email, “It’s all recorded and
everyone on this email thread as well as Dawson Place knows your lies.” | do not know what she is
referring to, but I would like to speak with an intake specialist prior to the May 5"" assessment/
meeting with Elora. Please provide me with a few days and times he or she is available.


--- Page 35 ---
Eb ZL

I think it is important to note that on the day of the incident, Sunday, March 24'h, Flora came home
to our house at 3:00 p.m. My wife, Monica, and I were both at home. Elora was there until 5:45
p.m. at which time we got ready for her to go to her mom’s house. When Elora got home, she told
us about an injury to her toe and her finger, and that she fell offa scooter and bit her lip while
playing. Other than that, during the 2.75 hours she was there, she played, happily drove the tractor
around the yard with me, and was generally in an upbeat mood,

Unbeknownst to me, on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, Veronika filed a police report. | was unaware of
this until the police contacted me the same day. Then I found out about the appointment Veronika
scheduled for Elora with Dawson on March 26",

I am seeking information and procedure that will assist all of us in providing the best support for
Elora and her health and well-being in mind.

Thank you for allowing me to share this with you.

Sincerely,

Mathew Ralidak

Cc: Veronika Goodnight

Goodnight v Ralidak
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Ce. 2

om: KIT Spins kit@kitsp
ect: Re: Elora Ralidak
ce: Apr 16, 2024 at 12:35:40 PM
» Mathew Ralidak mralidak@gmail.com
bridgecap@compassh.org, virgina.gleason@compassh.org

Dear all,
This is so unnecessary and doesn't have to be this complicated.

On the night of Monday March 25th as | put all children to bed, Elora came out and
asked if she could share something with me.

| stayed calm in absolute horror as Elora poured her heart out to me, asking
questions about if what her friend did was right.

Immediately after soothing her and helping her through a very traumatic situation
with pragmatism and a mother's care, | formulated a very well written email to
Mathew with our significant others cc'd on email thread. It has always been my
priority to follow our parenting plan and keep Mathew in the know with everything
regarding our children even though he does not.

| made the decision to report the incident the next day after much discussion with
people of authority based on that was the right thing to do and only when Mathews
communication to the girls parents wasn't immediately addressed.

Every bit of information | received | immediately shared with Mathew on that email
thread.

After | reported the incident | contacted Dawsons Place. You came referred by the
authorities as well as a good friend in the community who has unfortunately dealt
with such issues.

My contact with Dawsons Place was based on the knowledge and desire that |
wanted a professional to assess Elora to see if she even needed ongoing therapy.
| cannot make that decision. | felt it best to have someone who is trained in this
trauma.

| am confident that the way | handled mine and Eloras conversation, the connection
we have that she shared her truth and knows | wouldn't dismiss her, will carry her
into her future without trauma or feeling like a victim. And again, as confident as |
feel, | cannot make that decision for my 9 year old daughter and felt it best and
appropriate to schedule an assessment for Elora.

Mat has been in the know every second of the way.


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Gu Z.

| stand firm in my decision to contact Dawsons Place to have a professional assess
her and share with Mat and | if she needed ongoing therapy.

| spoke with Kim. | sent my parenting plan to her and did not make any decision
without Mathew.

| just scheduled an assessment and immediately shared with Mathew.

It was only an hour after scheduling the assessment did Kim call me back and say,
“the father called us and said, “this is not a big deal, | do not consent to services at
this time.”

That is what | meant by it's all documented.

| have an entire email thread with lies from Mathew saying he never called Dawsons
Place and cancelled the assessment and | have Kim, Cory and the supervisor
(blanking on name) telling me different.

Because | know Mathew personally and understand his pathological lying this is
normal behavior for him. | have been very apologetic to the team at Dawsons Place
for having such a high conflict personality to co parent with.

All | desire is for Elora to be assessed to even see if she needs ongoing therapy for
this traumatic incident.

| have done all the right things morally and by my daughter's unheard voice.

Elora constantly feels dismissed by her father and why she came to me to share
what happened.

| remain unbiased and clear headed despite what my daughter went through and all |
want is a professional to assess her because that is the next right thing to do this
moment and for the wellbeing of our daughter.

Mathew, please stop making everything difficult, involving people who | have no idea
who I'm emailing. In your email to these people you say they are the ones canceling
yet you just said, “ When I contacted Dawson informing you that I did not give consent for Elora
to be assessed at that time,”

So you are admitting that you canceled the appointment.

You've always been given information as | have received it.


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I'm assuming we are still on board for Elora’s assessment May 2nd at 8am. |
understand the protocol as Kim and the supervisor explained how the 2 hours will
go.

| apologize again for this unnecessary communication and the drama surrounding a
little girl who hasn't even had an assessment at this point.

In gratitude,
Veronika Goodnight

Sent from my iPhone

On Apr 16, 2024, at 8:03AM, Mathew Ralidak <mralidak@gmail.com> wrote:

Dear Lori Vanderburg and Fran Gatica:

Iam writing regarding my daughter, Elora Ralidak, age 9. Her mother, Veronika Goodnight, sought
services from Dawson Place after a situation with a friend, another 9 year old, on Sunday, March
24, 2024.

I first found out about Dawson Place when Elora’s mother emailed and told me that Elora was
scheduled for an assessment. I had no prior knowledge that she was looking into an assessment or
that she secured a provider for Elora. As Dawson is now aware of, health care (non-emergency)
decisions regarding Elora are to be made jointly by Veronika and myself according to the parenting
plan signed by the Court. See copy attached. When I pointed out to Veronika that the parenting
plan required the decision on Elora’s health to be made jointly, she become very upset and accused
me of cancelling the appointment. However, in a follow up call with Dawson, it was confirmed that
you cancelled the appointment due to the required joint decision-making clause in the parenting
plan. There have been several incorrect statements made by Veronika regarding my contact with
Dawson. I ask that Dawson utilize email for communication for this case and that both parents,
Veronika and I, be included in all communications. This will prevent miscommunication and allow
us to focus on meeting Elora’s needs. Please let us know who we should be communicating with.

I assume Veronika took time to research the best way to approach discussions, find a provider, and
help Elora before contacting Dawson. When I contacted Dawson informing you that I did not give